Suzie Perry

It's never too early to introduce a child to the wonderful world of cross stitch. Not only does it encourage creativity, build confidence and self-esteem, develop fine motor skills and celebrate personal expression, but think of the lovely memories you'll have of sharing special moments together. What a shame that the schools don't teach needle arts. Cross stitch is not only enjoyable, but educational for both boys and girls. They learn problem- solving skills, reading and math skills and even their handwriting will be enhanced

So, how do you nurture a child's interest in your favorite craft? The main thing to remember is: Keep it fun and interesting. Kids tend to have short attention spans and little patience. They need to see results. With that in mind, start with a small simple project that can be completed quickly. Choose one with only two or three color changes. The faster they can see their design come to life, the more excited they'll be about cross stitch.

Keep your sessions short so the child is not overwhelmed or frustrated with all the new skills and terminology. The first lesson should focus on; showing them how Aida cloth and the chart work together, explaining the symbols for each color of floss, finding the center of the fabric, and placing a hoop on the cloth. Use simple terms. Ask questions. Make sure they understand each step before moving on to the next. Put something in their hands as soon as possible so they can see it for themselves.

Showing is always better than just telling. Demonstrate the skills that you want them to learn. Thread the needle and then let them practice several times. Little fingers may have difficulty at first but keep encouraging them. Children need to experience that stitching is both fun and relaxing. Things may move slowly for awhile but don't despair; spending time together and having fun are far more important than the actual cross stitch. The pride and enthusiasm seen in their small eyes is well worth the wait.

Teach kids the proper way to begin and end their work. Demonstrate a row of cross stitch before they start their own design. Don't expect perfection. They are doing their best and that's all that counts. Find something to compliment. For younger children, make a game out of it. Kids need to feel a sense of accomplishment. Always provide plenty of praise and you'll give them the confidence they need to tackle any project.

Once they've finished, let the child decide what they want to do with it. You might suggest framing it, sewing it onto a favorite sweatshirt (with your help, of course), or giving it as a gift to a special someone. Whatever the decision, they will be beaming with pride so be sure to take a photo of it.

Now that you've lured them into the joy of cross stitch, take them to your favorite shop and let them choose their own design. Help them find a project that reflects their interests whether it's sports, animals, flowers or fairy tales. Buy them their own tools that they can use anytime, and let them have their own place to store their supplies. Give them scrap material to practice on. The more they immerse themselves in the craft, the more their skills will flourish.

Is there a child -- a family member, friend or neighbor to whom you could pass on your love of cross stitch? Sharing something you are passionate about is one of life's greatest joys. What a wonderful way to rediscover the beauty of cross stitch -- through the eyes of a child.